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Issa A.'s avatar

Attachment theory has tremendously helped me understand why I feel the way I feel and do the things I do. In this understanding, I have found compassion towards myself, and acceptance.

I am disorganized. It's hard. It gets lonely when you don't trust others, when you're afraid of opening up and being rejected.

I honestly don't know if I'll ever become securely attached, and I don't need to know. Because here's what's beautiful about this all: as I accept myself as I am, with my limitations and wounds, I can attract someone who will too, and together, we can give each other the love and support we need, and, perhaps, soften a bit more, trust a bit more, open-up a bit more. 💕

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Beth Spencer's avatar

Boundaries! A powerful force to help me break free from the way my childhood brain was trained. My self-individuation journey hasn't been easy, but the most important I've ever done.

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